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Don't directly link from the site.. Get a photobucket acc or something and put them on there.. xD

Why is it that girls can say another girl is hot, but guys won't admit if another male is attractive? I mean if one of you brothers were going out on a date and asked one of your siblings how you looked, would you

a. ignore him
b. tell him he looks great and hope he falls on his ass
c. tell him he looks SMOKIN' and wish him good luck
d. tell him your dog looks better

????

If it'd involve a date, I'd tell the truth xD
Same for my friends, they know me already.. >_>

So does your dog look better? xD

Males fail on the social level. Yes girls are more emotional and more expressive and that's why they live longer...

Having feelings doesn't make you a girl. It makes you human.

That's why I don't have feelings.

I am good socially.. o_o

It's the whole emotional thing that's hard for us.. Right as for the expressive, I could care LESS what others think of me really... Throw it all out there and make the best of your life. Besides the peeps in high school will only know me for a few years.. xD

Are you good with girls? If a girl is upset, will you know why or will you do something to upset her more? By socially I mean beyond classmates.

Girls share their feelings with each other. Guys won't. I asked a few guys if they even talk in the bathrooms and many of them said no, it'd be weird. Girls freakin live in there with their makeup and couches provided...

Ahaha, I can imagine a dinner table where guys are sitting at and they all decide to go to the bathroom TOGETHER...

Yeah, I mean if a girl is crying I do my best to comfort them.. I hate seeing a girl cry.. Makes me sad and pissed cause I think "Why wasn't I there to stop something like this?"

As for talking in the bathrooms.. o_O That is weird.. xD
I keep the whole sharing feelings things to my good friends.. Which oddly happens to be a group I can count on one hand.. xD

LOL My hero..

In my Principles of Selling course, somehow we'd gotten to the topic of males and females in relationships and our professor (who was a guy) said something about males taking things literally why females were able to see the more subtle and visual cues...

If a woman says, "You never take me out!" to her boyfriend/husband as a guy, he would usually answer back "We just went out two weeks ago. Remember?"

Explain what the girl really meant in her statement and why the guy has just made the girl angrier.

That was quickly answered by a female in our class within .003 seconds...

You try.

That's an easy one Phoenix.

What she means is she wants him to take her out, preferrably sometime that day.. xD

The guy just pissed her off for being an idiot and not seeing between the lines.. As you said, he took it literally..

BINGO!

Awe, you are a lady's man. Many happy days await you.

How sweet. Half the guys in the classroom agreed with the male in that case though. XD

Yeah, strange, huh? o__o

I don't know why some guys don't get it... xD

More relationship talk, I agree with Zid 100%...

I hate high school relationships tho, didn't work out... I was with this one girl freshmen year, and it didn't really work out. I was nice, respectful with this girl, until she ended up cheating on me, now she's a bitch to me...

Thank God I'm gonna be a psychologist, I'll study the female mind more and expand mine too...

Well, males tend to not get things because they either try to always be right, try to always fix things instead of just listening and having apathy, and/or hate to admit they're wrong. All of this aside from the taking things literally thing.

Oooohh BDSM. How wild of you Phoenix! Nothing wrong with that though.

You have NO IDEA...

It's suprising to find people who are open to the idea. Honest.